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      Disabled and need financial help to pay bills & feed 3 kids

      hanenotenshi
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      on Apr 20, 2007

      I've been out on disability since 9/06 and have gone through all my savings. I am now 2 months behind on paying the bills and have been selling personal belongings just to buy groceries for the kids.

      Any financial assistance or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. My parents were helping with bills until my father passed away last month.

      Please help.

      Erika

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        47. Hatchepsut posted on Jan 24, 2012
        SCI , woman, 41, going through tough divorce, fighting to keep my kid, and having to pay 1,888 for 24 hour home care for the privilege to see my son a few hours in the week and keeping him every other weekend. I need financial aid to help me pay for the in-home care, so I don't lose my home. Anyone has any ideas where I can apply since I can't apply to SS, SSI or Access?
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        46. geopiggie posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to Brokenback2000...   you can get food stamp easy
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        45. Brokenback2000 posted on Jan 2, 2012
        56 year old male single parent and have been disabled from car accident 12 years ago seeks assistance. Social Security is $12,000.00. Unable to work, and struggling, can anyone help?
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        44. BooBooDay posted on Dec 23, 2011
        Do you have to go back to school in order to get help in this world of ours?Will it pay the utility / or rent that need to be paid now? If, i was able to work i would do so . But, because i could no longer stand on my feet to do a job that could be done by allowing me to sit ,i was kicked to the curve after 28 years of faithful service.My utility is already pass due and the first is days away. My disability benefit isn`t enough and not due til mid month. Once able phsyically I`m hoping to get back to work and maybe i can be of help to someone in need. Thank you for listen and yes i`m saved but we need help to and maybe this is God way to test your heart. Thanks
        lonnietown
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        43. lonnietown posted on Dec 9, 2011
        I was working with a disability but now I can no longer work. I now need help with paying my rent and my utilities does anyone know where I can get some help.
        madhes
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        42. madhes posted on Nov 13, 2011
        I've been out on disability since 5/2008 and i have gone through all my savings. i need help to advanced knee prostheses please help
        loveleelisa
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        41. loveleelisa posted on Nov 12, 2011
         in response to Jerry9351...   he has had a back surgery that has never healed right,
        Go4More
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        40. Go4More posted on Nov 12, 2011
         in response to loveleelisa...   What is your husband's disability?
        loveleelisa
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        39. loveleelisa posted on Oct 29, 2011... modified on Nov 10, 2011

        I am in need of finacial help. My husband is trying to get disability and I get 688.00 I have a 15yr. old .We had a housefire in 2006, we did not have insurance, so we lost the house contents and my 3yr old son, I have been trying do things on my own but this year it has gotten hard. We are not going to have a Christmas or Thanksgiving. We could use some help. I have a car note that is to much for me to handle, but I live in a rural area that I need a car, and moving is not a option at this point.. I am asking for anything either help so that we can enjoy the holidays or help paying off my car note so we can be more independent. I owe 2006.23 on the car note and I have asked if we could have smaller payments but they can't help with that my payments are 312.26 a month we were ok before this because my mother paid my car note when she was living with us but she has since moved out and now we can't handle this. If you can help that would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

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        38. ClownManAZ posted on Oct 28, 2011
        I too am a disabled Vet having a difficult time with making ends meet. I live in south central Phoenix Arizona. I am in need to find a roommate to share my large 3 bedroom home with. I know how hard it is so I am only asking $450 per month for the rent and all the amenities like utilities, cable television, and internet WiFi access are included with the rent. y home is nicely furnished, tidy, quiet, and drama free. Anyone interested is welcomed to email me. Sharing accommodations is a good way for a lot of people on limited income to live comfortably without the stress of having to try and do it all on your own.
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        37. sad sad mommy posted on Oct 10, 2011
        Hi I am a single mother of 1 child I have real bad arthritis in both knees and lower back pain I cant do much of anything thing anymore an I am living with my sister in law an her son in a 2 bedroom apt, I am a lesbian woman an with ppl knowing that they dont like or want to help me. I am trying to move into a apartment with me an my child but is having a hard time saving up the move in cost due to me paying rent here, all I need is help with the moving in cost just that little jump start in life an I would be fine from that point on so if anyone can help me out in that area or any organizations please contact me at zymia1974@aol.com an please only serouse ppl who can help me. Thank you to everyone who took the time to read my story.
        disunderstood
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        36. disunderstood posted on Oct 9, 2011
         in response to frogg...   I think that it's awful that someone who has fought for us would be thrown away so easily. I have back problems along with fibromyalsia & it is so painful I can barely get out of bed. Anyone that has had the heart & bravery to fight for there country deserves to get any of the benefits they need! The military are appreciated especially those who have given their bodies for us!
        annracca
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        35. annracca posted on Oct 9, 2011
        HI all My husband and I are on disability...Husband has a lung disorder called Sarcoidosis and I have fibromyalgia.We are both Diabetics.Due to money issues we wasn't able to pay our elcetric bill this month..If someone can help us.I would appreciate it alot.. We really need this month and next months amount in order not to get behind.Can someone or some organization help us??
        email me at annracca@yahoo.com
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        34. irish1122 posted on Sep 27, 2011
        i am in danger of loosing my vehicle and having difficulty feeding my 2 kids i am useing chip and food stamps but it just is not enough does anyone have any ideas i am on ssdi due to cancer and it is becomeing increaseingly harder to make payments any help would be greatly appreciated
        wicked reason
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        33. wicked reason posted on Aug 19, 2011
         in response to helpifican...   I have issue with you saying you had this job, Disablity and SSI. How does that work. In order to get SSI. you need to be totally off work> with no other means of support> Odd> cause I know this for a fact ..
        nicolerobin
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        32. nicolerobin posted on Jul 28, 2011
        my child is disabled from a car accident , i hwas dx with cancer in march .... cant make our house payment , need a van with a lift .
        no insurance .... just faith
        msg retired
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        31. msg retired posted on Jul 15, 2011
        I know what your going thou. I am 48 yr old disable Vet, after I was forced to retire. I when from $70000. a year to $35000. I couldn't make it with 3 kids 1 getting ready for collage. So I bought a small business. was doing good then my government got me again! Chash for klunkers killed my business. I bought a towing business and opened a auto repair shop. Thanks to our government my cash flow took a 60% cut. After watching 3 other shop go under. after I spent all of my saveings I had to sell out. Now I'm $140000. Dallors in debt and now way to pay it back. Hell I don,t even have the money to file bankruptcy! So what do we o NOBODY WILL HIRE US TO WORK. So we can pay our bills. The price of food and everything else has gone up. So we get further behind !!!!! So if you find the answer short of just giving up. I don't have anough Insurance to pay everything off & I don't want to leave this problem with me family. Let me know.
        FibroMomw/AutisticKids
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        30. FibroMomw/AutisticKids posted on Jun 20, 2011
        I have heard of a program called www.microgiving.com. You can put your information on their site, and donations can be made to you for help for various reasons. I am looking into it, myself. I have suffered from severe fibromyalgia for several years, and I have finally had to stop working. I could not balance the demands of a career, three children (two of whom are autistic) and the problems that come from fibromyalgia. I am working to get disability, but that is always a long process, so I am looking into any forms of assistance that I can get to keep from losing our home. If I find any other possibly helpful sites, I will be happy to share them and my results with everyone here. My prayers are with all of you.
        Marican
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        29. Marican posted on Jun 17, 2011
         in response to crossboy56...   How did all that "Change" work out for you? Totally scammed...
        Manie
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        28. Manie posted on May 19, 2011
         in response to helpifican...   thank you
        Manie
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        27. Manie posted on May 19, 2011
         in response to sweetiepie77...   I live in san mateo,ca.
        sweetiepie77
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        26. sweetiepie77 posted on Apr 19, 2011
         in response to Manie...   WERE DO YOU LIVE ANd you can Get a assuranCE PHONE foR free 5.OO A MONth foR 200 Min
        Manie
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        25. Manie posted on Apr 16, 2011
         in response to Mannie...   I am a 31 year old disabled man. I am living with my mother and her boyfriend and i need help to get a studio or one bedroom apartment at a reasonable price. My mother is low income and is also mentally disabled and cannot help me to take care of myself. I have a condition called Guillian Barre Syndrome that has left me paralysed from the waist down. I have a fixed income that i have been surviving on but I also have debts to pay and soon to become homeless. I don't know where else to go for help. I am in need of a cell phone as well because my wheelchair has died before and left me stranded with no help. I would really appreciate any help or advice I can get. Thank you for taking you time to read this God Bless.
        Mannie
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        24. Mannie posted on Apr 16, 2011
        I am a 31 year old disabled man. I am living with my mother and her boyfriend and i need help to get a studio or one bedroom apartment at a reasonable price. My mother is low income and is also mentally disabled and cannot help me to take care of myself. I have a condition called Guillian Barre Syndrome that has left me paralysed from the waist down. I have a fixed income that i have been surviving on but I also have debts to pay and soon to become homeless. I don't know where else to go for help. I am in need of a cell phone as well because my wheelchair has died before and left me stranded with no help. I would really appreciate any help or advice I can get. Thank you for taking you time to read this God Bless.
        Mannie
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        23. Mannie posted on Apr 16, 2011
        I am a 31 year old disabled man. I am living with my mother and her boyfriend and i need help to get a studio or one bedroom apartment at a reasonable price. My mother is low income and is also mentally disabled and cannot help me to take care of myself. I have a condition called Guillian Barre Syndrome that has left me paralysed from the waist down. I have a fixed income that i have been surviving on but I also have debts to pay and soon to become homeless. I don't know where else to go for help. I am in need of a cell phone as well because my wheelchair has died before and left me stranded with no help. I would really appreciate any help or advice I can get. Thank you for taking you time to read this God Bless.
        helpifican
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        22. helpifican posted on Mar 8, 2011
        Hey there! The Government has a program that has been around for sometime! They have been restructuring it over the past 5 yrs or so!
        GO HERE: https://www.disability.gov/Look for Ticket to Work info!
        MOST people on disability have NO Idea that it is avilable! Go to the sight and read up on all the different options! They also have a packet they can send you in the mail! Just because you get the pack they don't bother you or force you to take part in the program! Get the packet sent to you so you can get a closer look at all the info! They have completely restructured the program over the last 5 years. In fact .... They recently started a new thing where they help to provide you with Companies that want to put you to work doing online jobs or phone jobs Or what ever so you can do it right from your home! You can work part or full time and still collect your disability!They used to just pay for schooling and transportaion or what ever you need to try and learn a new skill or start a business that would allow you to maybe eventually get off of disability! They would allow this for a period of years! I think it was 4 -6 years!( I could be wrong about the time limit! lBut ... they allow you to earn an income & keep getting your full disability payments while you started a new business, went to school! And if at the end of the time period you did get off of disability! And you tried to do the new job or skill and it just didn't work out you were assured of being able to get right back on if you need to! With out the refiling to be reinstated! Go to the site and do a search on GOOGLE For US Governmet Ticket to work. There are several different government offices that can help you . to see if this would help you out! You don't have to do it! Just because you inquire about it! Hell! I got a packet about 7 yrs ago to go back to school! And I tried it! But after 7 back surgeries. I was unable to continue! But they allowed me to continue with my payments and they never bugged me to try anything else! I was also trying to start up a new business but it just didn't workout and I was earning about 1,800 a month for 8 months in addition to my disability and SSI! It was great while it lasted!

        Best of luck!
        helpifican!
        Starshine
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        21. Starshine posted on Mar 2, 2011
         in response to brokenbody...   

        Hello

        And welcome to Aidpage.

        I would try this to see if it helps you save your house.

        http://www.naca.com/index_main.jsp

        Good luck

        Sincerely,

        Starshine

        brokenbody
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        20. brokenbody posted on Mar 2, 2011
         in response to nickie 42...   Hi Nickie 42. I'm in the same situation that you are in. We're you able to find any government grants that would help you out. Please let me know as I am also about to lose my house.
        poos
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        19. poos posted on Feb 20, 2011
        I have hundingston disease looking for help with repairs to my roof. I am also seeking help with neighbor, who have crerated serveral problems for me . In and out house and car. This neighbor seem to know where I am sleeping in my house. The police does not belived me everytime I call them they take me to hosipal.
        demy3369
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        18. demy3369 posted on Feb 3, 2011
         in response to Inspiration...   Yes Thank you i have an attorney
        Inspiration
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        17. Inspiration posted on Feb 3, 2011

         in response to demy3369...   Do you have legal representation? Let me know and I'll see if I can find some lawyers who take cases for free.

        demy3369
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        16. demy3369 posted on Feb 3, 2011
         in response to Inspiration...   Yes I filed a claim but i wasnt treated properly.
        demy3369
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        15. demy3369 posted on Feb 3, 2011
         in response to Inspiration...   Yes i did file a claim but i never got all the medical i needed
        Inspiration
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        14. Inspiration posted on Jan 31, 2011
         in response to demy3369...   Since you were injured on the job, were you able to file a claim against your employer for your medical care?
        demy3369
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        13. demy3369 posted on Jan 31, 2011
        I was injured on the job in 2005 never got the medical treatment i needed now i have severe spine problems cant work anymore need a wheel chair havent worked in three years i have lost everything and no one cares what do you do need a doctor but no insurance n no more money
        frogg
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        12. frogg posted on Sep 24, 2010
         in response to COBRA...   I am disabled to. and I was in the military. the army threw me out and told me if i get my back fixed i could come back in. we i was screwed by my own government. I feel for the vets. and if I had the money I would help them in a heartbeat. cause they fought for us and there country just kicks them to the curb. Good Luck my friend and thank you for serving.
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        11. chrysra1114 posted on Aug 13, 2010

        I just want the person who wrote me yesterday about helping me for the items that I needed do to me having Parkinson thank you very much

        nickie 42
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        10. nickie 42 posted on May 21, 2010

        I became disabled in 2006.I am diagonosed with LUPUS/SCLERODERMA,MS .Had several surgeries in past 3yrs.I can no longer work& do the most simpliest things anymore.I fell behind in my morgage& taxes,they are about to foreclose on my home,the only thing I have that means the world to me!!I had worked so hard to get where I am today& now that dream is about to be shaddered!!!So,I'm asking if there is any kind of grant to help me save my home???Please let me know????Thank You from the bottom of my heart....

        obally
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        9. obally posted on May 4, 2010

        I have been disabled since 2009 with ms.I can no longer work.my husband is an immagrat. so he cant work due to the green card issue.His application has been approved.The problem not i can no longer pay my bills nor pay 00 to pay for his paperwork or green card.I also have 2 little girls.please is  there anyone to help.               Thank you

        Starshine
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        8. Starshine posted on Jan 25, 2010
         in response to slane...   You are welcome.....
        slane
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        7. slane posted on Jan 25, 2010
         in response to Starshine...   thank you I will....
        Starshine
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        6. Starshine posted on Jan 25, 2010
         in response to slane...   

        Hi

        See my blog here

         http://starshine1.aidpage.com/

        as there is lots of information and many topics to go through but I know I have posted information on getting help with medicine and other things..

        check with your local senior citizen center for work too.

        Good luck 

        slane
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        5. slane posted on Jan 25, 2010

        I am disabled from a stroke. I take blood pressure medicine and even with medicare I can't afford my medicine. I am a month behind in my rent...I am 61 years old and ready to go stand on the freeway onramp and beg...I need help,

        please....contact me  susanlane81@yahoo.com   I will work for you,clean, laundry, errands, anythig you need done..I need help PLEASE.....

        MotherGoose01
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        4. MotherGoose01 posted on Oct 27, 2009
        crossboy56
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        3. crossboy56 posted on May 26, 2008
         in response to COBRA...   

        Contact your state government office to see if they will help to move the VA to get fast assistance,for you.

         VOTE,for O'bama you need change in your life.

        crossboy56
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        2. crossboy56 posted on May 26, 2008

        you need change in your life vote for O'bama,now and in november

         Contact your local government office they can direct you to the right help,food stamp programs,home payment programs.

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        1. COBRA posted on May 19, 2008

        HELLO:   YOU MAY E MAIL ME AT:  wilhelminia52@hotmail.com

         

        I AM WILHELMINIA, A 100% DISABLED VETERAN.  I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR SOCIAL SECURITY TO HELP HME FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS.  MY BOARD HEARING WILL COME UP FINALLY IN A FEW MONTHS. 

         I SPEND MY FREE TIME GIVING BACK THROUGH ASSISTING HOSPITALIZED VETERANS AND ANY OTHER VETERANS WITH THEIR DISABILITY CLAIMS ON A VOLUNTEER BASIS. 

        FRIENDS AND RELATIVES HAVE HELPED ME AS MUCH AS THEY CAN, NOW THEY TOO ARE EXPERIENCING FINANCIAL PROBLEMS. 

         

        I HAVE FILE BANKRUPTCY ALREADY TO SAVE MY LIVING QUARTERS.  I STILL HAVE ABOUT SIX BILLS I JUST CAN'T PAY.

         

        IF THERE IS SOME ONE OUT THERE WHO WILL PROVIDE ME WITH A SHORT TERM LOAN I WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATIVE.  THANKS IN ADVANCE.

         

        WILHELMINIA

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